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Kids will always have a special connection with their parents. And as parents, it’s our job to build a relationship with them where they feel empowered and in control of their lives from early on.
But often, this is much easier said than done. Kids can be hard to work with, especially if you didn’t start from early on. And while this article is about the hard decisions you’ll have to make for your kids, it’s more of a guide on building a relationship with them and making them feel empowered.
It all starts from early on in your kid’s life. So, if you’re a young parent, then this guide will fit just right in. But if your kid’s in their teens, keep reading too. It’s never too late.
“Encouraging a child means that one or more of the following critical life messages are coming through, either by word or by action: I believe in you, I trust you, I know you can handle this, You are listened to, You are cared for, You are very important to me.”
-Barbara Coloroso
Choosing the right school
This will always be a hard one. After all, choosing the right education for your child can make one of the most significant differences in their life.
But then begs the question, how do you choose the right school for them?
Well, choosing the right school all boils down to doing the research. And it all can start with a simple Google search.
We all want the best outcomes for children and sometimes that means making decisions for them. Here's how you can empower them in the process. Click To TweetA simple “best schools in Utah” search will spill out the best school in, well, Utah. Change the city, and you’re bound to find articles, forums, and talks about the different schools in your area.
However, keep in mind that it’s also essential to consult with your child as well. It’s their future, and you want them to have a say in it.
This will also build a healthy parent-kid relationship where you show them you trust them.
Work Together
Having a healthy and thriving relationship with your kid is one of the things we all want. And if you want to make sure you build it, it will be mostly your responsibility.
The way you act and take decisions should be a mutual process. After all, you want them to feel empowered about their lives and the decisions you’re both making.
In other words, and you don’t want to take important decisions that will affect them without asking them first.
So, build a process where they feel included and comfortable to speak their mind. And if you’re feeling lost, don’t worry, there are plenty of articles written about it.
Lead By Example
As a parent, and as a person in general, the only way to lead is to lead by example.
So, when you’re raising your kid, they will always mimic what you do. While they’ll do it their way, generally, they will learn to make decisions, somewhat similar to what you’re making.
That’s why one of the best things you can do as a parent is to lead by example. Even the little things like eating well, not stressing out in front of them, and taking care of yourself can make a big impact in your kid’s life. Happy parenting!
Krystle Cook – the creator of Home Jobs by MOM – put her psychology degree on a shelf and dived into a pile of diapers and dishes instead. She is a wife and mother to two rambunctious boys, sweating it out in her Texas hometown. She loves cooking, DIY home projects, and family fun activities.
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